You may be setting a goal for yourself or you're hesitant to set that goal because you don't know how to make that happen? How is that going to be possible? Forget it! Don't worry about how! Reasons come First, answers come Second. Step up be a leader. Take charge of your life. We are, what we believe. If you have some beliefs that are not serving you in your life., get rid of them. You have unlimited potential and you can tap into that. Now, going to be sharing the success formula, so that you can create success in your life.
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Success principle number one is Clarity. Bottom line is that if you don't know what you want, you will never get it. Clarity is power. You need to get clear about what it is that you want to achieve. You need to get clear what does success mean for you. What does that look like. Can you measure it? We have this powerful system in our brain called the reticular activating system RAS for short. Basically, its purpose is to allow us to just focus on what's important. Because a lot of things are happening in the world and our senses can go crazy and get overwhelmed with everything that's going on. You know just feeling as humans, we focus on five to seven things at a time and we focus on what's important to us. And we have the ability to program the RAS system. And the way we do that is by getting clear on what's important to us. Once you got clear on what you wanted, your reticular activating system started to notice it and in many ways. This is how the law of attraction works. It's not like, you say that you want something and all of a sudden just lands on your lap. It's that when you get clear on what you want, your reticular activating system now has direction. It knows what to focus on. It's going to be doing work. Your subconscious going to be doing work anyways, but if you can tell it what you want it to be looking for, it will do that. It will work around the clock to make it happen for you. And opportunities are everywhere. There is an abundance of opportunity but we just don't notice it. When we get clear on what our goals, we want to achieve. All of a sudden, we notice opportunities and we start seeing things happening for us in our lives .It's because we got clarity. So, setting goals for yourself is a great way to do this. Because it forces you to sit down, make the time to get clear on what do you want out of life. Getting very specific with your goals. It's important that you get specific. Avoid the tyranny of the how you may be setting a goal for yourself. You're hesitant to set that goal because you don't know how to make that happen. How is that going to be possible! forget it! Don't worry about the how.  |
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Number two, Become your own Leader. Become your own leader. Stop being this weak person, who needs someone else to help them become successful. You have something called potential and you've harvested it. It's inside you and it's waiting to be unleashed. It's waiting to be commanded out and you have all these powers. You are a powerful strong capable person and you have the ability to achieve whatever it is that you want to achieve in your life. You need to step into the role of a leader and become the leader of your life. Don't rely on other people. Don't wait for other people. Honestly, you're going to be waiting a lifetime, if you're waiting for someone to just walk up to you and say that I'm going to coach you. I'm going to help you. I'm going to lead you towards your success. That doesn't happen. So step up be a leader. Take charge of your life.  |
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Tony Robbins has something called the three mandates of leadership. It would be helpful for you to take these on.
1)Number one is, see things as they are not worse than they are. We have this tendency, whenever we set a goal for ourselves that we've never achieved before. Because we haven't achieved it, it's a bit scary. We don't know if we can achieve it or not. We don't know what the outcome will be, if we try and so then we start thinking about worst case scenario. We think about all the things that could possibly go wrong. We don't really see things as they are, we make it worse than they are. By seeing things the worst case scenario, we don't even have to try. If we don't try, then we don't risk failing and ultimately, we want to avoid failure subconsciously.
2) Number two is seeing it better than it is. Not seeing it worse than it is. So it's noticing where you are today and creating a compelling vision for yourself in the future, what it could be, what you could achieve, what you could create, what you could become, seeing things better than it is. It gives you excitement, it gives you a vision. It gives you something to work towards. So instead of thinking worst case scenario maybe you're thinking best case scenario. That's going to propel you to move forward.
3) Number three is, make it the way you see it. You have this vision for yourself that's what you want to work towards and this comes down to strategy action and momentum taking action to achieve it to create that vision. Those are the three mandates of leadership.
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Number three, The Power Of Belief. I can't emphasize how important the power of belief is in your life and in achieving success. This is the reason, the rich get richer and the poor get poorer. When you start to gain momentum and object, emotion stays in motion. Tony Robbins has something called the success cycle. You have unlimited potential, it's actually fascinating because we don't even know how much potentials humans hold. There are things that were once seen as impossible that later became possible. Because human beings have achieved them. World records are being broken on a regular basis. Science can't quite define how much potential we have really. It's just incredible. Humans have unlimited potential. But do our results in life reflect the potential that we have? Oftentimes, we don't have good results in life. We're not happy with our results. Does it mean that if we take more action we're going to see better results not necessarily. So really it starts with your belief. Your belief is where everything begins. Where the cycle begins. If you have low belief, where it's like you set a goal for yourself and you you're kind of wavering. You don't have full belief that if you do x y and z, or you will achieve those results. Then you're not going to tap into your fullest potential. If you don't tap into your fullest potential, you end up having this horrible cycle that's just not going to work towards your success. So everything starts with your belief. If you don't believe, you can do it. If you don't believe, you can achieve it. You won't. and oftentimes you may not have belief in yourself and maybe you don't have supportive family or friends. Still you should have believe in yourself. You have something called human potential which is so powerful. You're capable of achieving whatever it is that you want to achieve.  |
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Now, the power of visualization. This is another principle. Visualization is very very powerful. Basketball players will tell you that visualizing getting the shots in the hoop. You don't have to physically do it. They've even done. If you visualize it, you have the same improvement as someone who's actually practicing, which is just incredible. So visualized it, in order to achieve it. If a person had ever achieved any goal, after him many people achieved it. It's because, he achieved the goal which was hard to achieve. Now everyone else in the world all of a sudden had the belief that this was possible. All of the people in the world realize that if this man can do it and he's a human, we can do it too. So, they all benefited from his original belief in himself, even though he didn't have a reference from someone else. He created belief within himself because we all have that power and he was able to achieve his goal. Now everyone else after him. So if you've got to change your beliefs, if you have some beliefs that are not serving you in your life, get rid of them. You have unlimited potential and you can tap into that.  |
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Number four is to take massive action persist until you get the results. If you set a goal for yourself and you're trying something and it's not working, don't just give up. Change your approach, try something else. If it's not working, change your approach, try something else. If it's not working again, change your approach again. You continue to change your approach until you get the results. So many people end up giving up on their dreams. End up giving up on their goals because they think that it's just going to happen like that. And they don't realize that you're going to have to continue to keep trying until you succeed. You have to make it a must. It's not just something that you want. It's something that you make a must in your life. And if it's a must then you'll do whatever it takes. If you can't find the way, you make the way, right. It's very important to realize that like there's no such thing as failure except when you fail to learn from your experience. If you have any big goal in life, it's not going to be a piece of pie and that's why it's so rewarding. If it was so easy to achieve your goals, it wouldn't be as rewarding. It's the struggle, it's the growth, it's the continuance, it's the persistence that makes the entire journey rewarding. It's who you become at the end of it. Failure is never a lack of resources. It's a lack of resourcefulness.  |
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Number five is bring success to what you do. Success isn't something that you go and get. It's something that you bring. You can bring success to whatever it is that you're doing. This is really just a spiritual principle. It's just realizing that success isn't something you go and get, you know it's something that you create. You bring it to what you're doing and the beauty of this is that, you can do this. Oftentimes, we go about our days and we're saying that we want to achieve success but we're waiting for the perfect opportunity. We're waiting for the perfect business so that we can work our asset off in that business and be successful with that business.  |
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Bring success to it, doesn't have to be big we tend to make things big we need to have something big. You don't have to chase happiness. You don't have to chase success. Just confidently move forward with your dreams with what's important to you. and it just really goes to show that like everything you have is within you. You have that potential, you just have to command it out of you and get clear on what it is that you want. Sometimes we delude ourselves into thinking that success is going to bring us happiness, joy, fulfillment, all of these things. Anything external is never going to bring you happiness. Strive for success, be the best you can be, unlock your potential, be a gift to the world, to other people go for it. But understand that, the art of fulfillment. It's an art. It's not a step-by-step process. You have to figure it out for yourself and that's really where fulfillment lies. It's not in achieving more. It's not in in in checking off your goals list. It's in just fulfillment and being happy with yourself, being content your relationship with Allah (God), with other people. Your spirituality, is the love that you have for yourself. It's good to focusing your time and energy on success but focus equally on your fulfillment. So, there are many things that you will learn on this journey that are going to help you with success but you have to be wary and you have to kind of have this pedometer where you can kind of understand you know what what is this costing me and having a balance figuring out. Because if you just have your goals, kind of hit you, know in your in your mind, you're not accountable to anyone but yourself.
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