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Really the ideal wife? Why do Russia, Belarus & Ukraine have the highest divorce rates in the world?

 

Really the ideal wife? Why do Russia, Belarus & Ukraine have the highest divorce rates in the world?


Really the ideal wife? Why do Russia, Belarus & Ukraine have the highest divorce rates in the world?

Divorce in a country like Russia is 60% of all marriages yes you heard

that correct, 60 percent

So welcome to Odessa, Ukraine and a glorious

late summer's evening it's actually autumn we have an Indian summer here

in Odessa in Ukraine it's been fantastic over 20 degrees celsius

and yes you did read the title correctly why is divorce

so high in a country like Ukraine or Russia or Belarus

especially in light of we'll say marriage agencies or other charlatans in

general online trying to persuade you that they

are the ideal wife traditional wife with all these

traditional values on how is it possible that

the divorce rates are so high they are basically the highest in the world

with a few exceptions like some island nations or just a small

western european country but believe it or not

divorce in a country like Russia is 60% of all marriages yes you heard

that correct 60% so this video is basically going to

be kind of like a two-part series because

it's going to address more of these little issues

to do with what's known as red pill or mgtow philosophy and how they frame

say dating in the West versus dating in the east of

Europe it's not to say I disagree with everything that they say of course

there's a lot of valid points there and I'll go inside a bit more detail in

the next vodcast but in this one I want to deal particularly with marriage and the

divorce rate because with divorce rates being so

high in Eastern Europe obviously that clashes with the notion

that women are traditional here otherwise why does it

end up being so high a divorce rate and in particular mgtow or

it's kind of a subset of red pill philosophy you don't know what that is I will

address it a bit more in the next video for the purposes of

this one they basically see that women in the West use men

primarily because of divorce laws being more favorable towards women in general

in most Western countries and they use that anchor of marriage as

a way to get resources from men that would be one of

the main points that they bring up when they

discuss dating between men and women in the West

now they present Eastern European women Slavic women as these

unicorns some would say that there are just a few unicorns if you're gonna find

them you're gonna find them here and they promote the idea that they

have traditional values in contrast to say feminism in the West which a lot

more ingrained I have other vodcasts about why you don't see extreme

feminism here in or radical feminism here in

Eastern Europe I'll link it up above in a card and down below in the

description you know a link so you can go and watch that

after this one so that's the way they frame it

so how is it possible that say the divorce rate is hovering somewhere

between 40 and 50 percent in most big Western countries like we take the US

we take the United Kingdom if we take Germany like France but here it is a

whopping 60% in well I looked it up in Russia it's

actually over 60 percent here in Ukraine the stats I saw basically

had it between 55 and 60% as well same for Belarus

also in the high 50s so what is going on?

are these women still really the traditional ideal wife as they're

promoted by a lot of other online

we'll say dating advisors I wouldn't call them dating gurus but a lot of those who

commentate particularly from the more red

pill mgtow angle so what are the reasons

that lead to a high divorce rate here in Eastern Europe now the first one is

in general people tend to get married younger

so that isn't necessarily to do with that is actually I guess

traditional value the fact that women they don't defer getting married as long

as they do in the West because they don't focus on their career

traditionally in the last we'll say since the end of communism obviously

things changed because in the Soviet Union all

women in effect had to work so now they got basically the option not

to work if they don't want to or if they find a guy maybe to

subsidize their lifestyle and give them those what I've started to call

princess values or fake traditional values where they talk about the man

providing but really not doing those traditional

female roles that would have been associated with

more things in the house I have other vodcasts about that of course I'll

link them up above and below where I go into more

detail now they do of course tend to prioritize looking after child in the

first few years more than I would say in general

in the West but since they tend to get married younger that means they're

actually with someone for a lot more years in general I guess

if you start young you're going to be probably married a bit

longer if ceteris paribus of course and you know if you get married younger

you don't really know what you want or who's going to be a good fit for you and

there is more room or more time for that person

to change your partner and then actually not be such a good match and that

is something that is probably a big contributing factor is

that they get married traditionally younger here

which is as I said traditional traditionally what would have happened

in the West maybe well it would have been a good

few years ago would have been maybe I guess 50 or 60 years ago we would have

maybe women getting married between 20 18 and 21 in general as opposed to today

where obviously the marriage age is probably

even over 30 now that has been changing I looked it

up online for Russia in particular now actually Russian women

in the big cities in particular tend to be getting married in their late 20s

and actually late 20s early 30s so this isn't actually a big

difference if you look at it right now today but of course this trend only

started in the last decade in Russia so obviously the

divorces that have been happening in the last few years are ones where

obviously it goes back where people married for at least a few years so they

probably had still been getting married a good bit younger now the second reason

that I can see that divorce rates are going to be higher in

Russia than the West is actually it's a lot easier

to get a divorce in a country like Russia I'm talking about Eastern Europe in

general also in Ukraine I know it's just it's more of a formality almost

isn't as complicated as in a lot of Western countries now

I used to work as a lawyer so I understand that obviously the law

differs in every single country and not everything is extreme maybe

in terms of division of property and alimony as it is in some American states

in other countries say in Western Europe it's not that extreme in terms of

favoring women over men and not that actually easy especially in

the country like I was born in Ireland it tends to be a lot

tends to be a little bit more complicated in terms of getting divorced

in terms of time and going through court procedures than it is here in

Eastern Europe in particular in Russia where you can actually get it done

really really quickly in a couple of months and actually

you can get basically a divorce before you really have to

haggle over the property and say the alimony and kids

that doesn't tend to happen in most Western countries normally it's only at

the end so basically it's a lot easier and one other thing that comes up a lot

with red pill or mgtow guys when they talk about dating in the

West and it's not that I disagree with them

but they always emphasize that women are more likely to

initiate the divorce than men they normally start to think around 70

percent and it's actually higher in Russia

it's 80 percent 80% are initiated by women so it's even

higher than it is in the West from what I

can see statistically at least there isn't a huge difference so again

that is another thing that happens so it's easier that's the second thing and

actually women are going to take advantage of that apparently

just as much here if not more than in the West so you're probably asking

yourself Conor but I heard that men don't get divorced raped divorce

rape basically they don't get exploited as much in the court system here in

family law than they do in general in the West and that is true

things like alimony and actually the enforcement of the law is

lower here in terms of absentee dads guys who run off basically and

don't pay any alimony don't contribute it is harder here probably

than it is in the West but when it comes to division of marital

property like property acquired after the marriage

it's pretty much from what I can see similar here and actually a lot of alimony

is reasonably high when I looked at the rules in Russia in theory now in

practice you just don't have that culture in the

courts here in Eastern Europe in terms of being maybe more draconian towards

men so that should lower the incentive women

to initiate the divorce you would think because they have less

to gain from maybe financially but as I said 80 percent in Russia divorces

initiated by women actually what you'll see as well is I've

seen a few cases of Russian women or Eastern European

women who were married to local guys who were oligarchs and they

actually had a nexus like a link with the United Kingdom in

terms of maybe property or they were resident there

and they initiated their divorces not here in Eastern Europe but actually in

in England so another thing that will come up a lot

with mgtow is that they'll talk about or red pill or just a lot of guys who

comment under my videos it's like the problem is that when you move

like you bring your spouse from Eastern Europe to the West

and basically she will become like the women in the West or feminized what not

and basically she would figure out how to

get those acquire those assets through the divorce courts through family law courts

but actually basically it seems like they probably

already figured that out in general if they are that way

inclined if they are actually really really keen to get your

resources so basically in summary divorce rates and actually being a

single mom it's pretty much the same in Eastern

Europe as it's going to be in in the West if not even maybe a

little bit higher so that's probably going to surprise you

it also actually surprised me that it's actually higher because of all

the comments I see or all the videos you see online tell me there are these

unicorns out here where things are not the same because of family law as a

lawyer I agree that there is definitely more

incentives to get divorced as a woman in the West

but as it turns out divorce culture is

pretty strong here now why should you care well it's kind of

what I alluded to if you do marry if you come here in

the first place thinking hey they're all these unicorns and

you know they don't have feminism as much and

yeah they all want they're all traditional valued as is

probably sold to you if you're looking at the website of a

disingenuous marriage agency should we say of course I did some videos with

a couple that I think are actually genuine so if you're going to ... or are that

way inclined then definitely go and check the links below in the description also

up in the card to the videos I did with those particular

matchmaking services but basically if you come with that

mentality you're probably going to get fleeced

even before the marriage right because that's what happens a lot

in Eastern Europe with the traditional values it's basically men lead

they tend to pay for things but if you come with that this is traditional I'm

the provider then unfortunately a lot of the women

who want to exploit those kind of guys whether it happens

to be local or foreign they're going to target

you now I'm not saying as a caveat that actually most women are like that in

Eastern Europe in spite of the divorce rate

being so high it's not my experience but they don't tend to go in general

seeking foreign men because they can find men

here they're actually really are more traditional so they're gonna go

with a local guy in general so especially if you

don't speak Russian or Ukrainian and you come here you don't have experience then

you have to be very careful because those kind of women will exploit

that mindset that they see that you are looking for that kind of more

traditional valued woman so I guess a good way to sum up this video

is you should really question whether you want to get married in the West or

the east of Europe if divorce rates are going to be that high

you should at least if you are going to take the plunge and

actually go and have a marriage take the the appropriate legal measures to

protect yourself if you are worried about say your property

or being basically exploited yeah like what happened happens a lot in

the West at the moment in the family law courts where

basically you'll end up just being a provider without maybe getting

so much access to whatever children you might have with the woman that you meet

here so you definitely take those prudent

steps so you really need to ask yourself why do you want to get married whether

it's in the West or in the East take appropriate legal

protection measures before you get married anywhere because

the idea that women here are traditional in the sense that they're going looking

for a man to be married forever there are a lot of those women but the

reality is that divorce rates they're just as high at the end of the

day for the reasons I outlined and things like single moms all

this if that's what you're looking for of

course there's nothing wrong with marrying someone

who is a single mom in Ukraine don't come here thinking that it's

the the land that time forgot and that things are like in

I don't know in your grandma's time I actually read a great quote recently

where a guy quipped that when you meet a slavic

woman you should look at her grandma her babushka

and look at her to see what she will look like in the future

but not how she will behave because if you think that like i like to joke

that Italian guys it's probably almost like cliched in my videos that Italian

guys tend to cook better than younger Ukrainian women today don't

think that's going to be the mindset I don't want to see you

you know get absolutely fleeced first of all when you arrive here and then

afterwards if you have you know you're a bit naive in who you

marry because if you end up with a gold digger

you end up with a gold digger so that is a way for me to segue into

my recent course that I finished up I guess about two months ago called

Slavic Seduction Secrets where we actually went into how to attract

high quality sincere beautiful women here in Eastern Europe

I did have my first bootcamp which was ScamBuster Secrets where actually we

figured out how to I taught the guys who participated how

to vet and absolutely 100% filter out those scammers

the girls are actually just really after your money whether they're

actually going to rob you basically or if they're going to go the longer

they're in for the longer run with a bit more gold digging mentality

so basically if you want to be invited

or get the opportunity to enroll in those courses the next time I open them up

for guys who didn't get in last time then you need to be on my mailing list

same protocol said in a lot of videos recently there is a link below

you go down there you type in your email address and then I whisk

off to you a free checklist which are the five biggest mistakes made by

western men when they come here to date beautiful Ukrainian women that's

completely for free also to be on the mailing list is also for free

in the meantime so you can probably tell the light has started to fade on the

camera so it's a good time for me to end this video gonna be just watched

off camera another beautiful sunset on the shores of Black Sea

in Ukraine see you very soon in the next video gonna go into more detail

about how I think mgtow or red pill philosophy gets it

quite wrong in certain areas with respect to dating in Eastern Europe



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